Daily routine for Calmness
Why?
-> To reduce overthinking and avoiding anxiety & panic. -> Train the mind like training body.
Problems
-> Brain stuck in “what if” loops (future problems, alternate-case scenarios). -> Body locked in stress mode (nervous system doesn’t get the “all clear” signal).
Scheduled Overthinking/Worry time
-> Every day at 5:30 PM give 15 minutes to allow overthinking and write down thoughts. Outside that time, if thoughts pop up, remind: “Not now. I’ll think at 05:30 PM.”
5-4-3-2-1 Grounding trick
-> Notice 5 things you see, 4 touch, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste. Brings you back from spiraling thoughts.
🌅 Morning Calm Routine (5–7 min)
Sunlight & Breath (2 min)
Step outside or near a window.
Take 5 deep breaths (inhale through nose, slow exhale through mouth).Gratitude / Intention (1–2 min)
Write down 1 thing you’re grateful for and 1 thing you want today
(e.g., “Grateful for my health. Today I want to stay calm in challenges.”)Mini Grounding (2–3 min)
Notice: 3 things you see, 2 things you hear, 1 thing you feel.
Brings the mind into the present.
🌙 Night Calm Routine (7–10 min)
Phone off / dim lights (15–30 min before bed)
Signal your brain that the day is ending.Journaling dump (2–3 min)
Write down: “What’s on my mind?” — empty thoughts onto paper.- Body Scan or Breathing (3–5 min)
- Option A: 4–7–8 breathing (inhale 4, hold 7, exhale 8, repeat 4 times).
- Option B: Mentally scan body parts from head to toes, relaxing each.
- Positive closure (1 min)
End with: “Today is done. I did my best. Tomorrow is a new day.”
🔑 Key Tips
- Consistency > length → even 3–5 minutes daily trains your brain.
- Don’t aim for an empty mind → just aim for gentler, slower thoughts.
- If panic or overthinking comes in the day, do 3 deep breaths or the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding trick.